Hand in hand with rapid social economic development, there are many different choices for women to position themselves. Some may choose to be a career woman, and some may choose to be a stay-at-home wife, but each choice is a perfect portrayal of a woman's self because under each kind of choice lies the possibility that a woman can live a great life.
We are all too familiar with the term "stay-at-home wife." Now, being a stay-at-home wife myself, I understand what my role as such is, and I hold an opinion that the term "stay-at-home wife" is pragmatic. In this long road of life, everybody as an independent individual has a role that is dynamic, and no one is able to retain the persistent role. Therefore, the alteration in identity witnesses people’s growth and the accumulation of sophistication. From a childhood that is full of joy and carelessness to the busy school days, to the working life attitude expressed by care for the boss's assignment and the expectation of a pay raise, to the sense of responsibility required to become a parent for the first time, I think adjustment of self to the moment and enjoyment of little joys in life is very important. Everybody has a limited amount of time at one's disposal. I want to be the character I want to be; hence, I feel like the world is in front of me, pointing to somewhere I want to go. I presided over me thoroughly and absolutely. Although the daily life of a stay-at-home wife is repetitive, it also fully reflects the love for children. For example, keeping and handling food and garment aspects of the child, planning her amusement life, construction, education of her psychological construction, and doing daily housework are all aspects of the life I live every day. Although it is tiring and annoying, I still hope to better accompany my child and give her whole support to let her be who she wants to be. Now, I want to say here that not only the working men/women in their surroundings but also the stay-at-home wives/husbands should enjoy life in this role.
Maybe at each different stage, my thoughts will be changed with my mood. Well, really I believe children, the involution, and such educational circumstances made me change myself. If the pressure of education is reduced, I will choose my dream and ideal future social role. That means I am going to be a stay-at-home wife, accompanying my children in their underaged years. By the time my child is of age, I would want to make a change. Hopefully, I could further explore new social roles and start a business then. Because I like challenging work, I like new things, and I have experience.
- Ms. H
Shanghai, China
Interviewer: Melody
Editor: Victor
Translator: Kendy
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